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Learning is a result of listen...

Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn.

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Those children who are beaten ...

Those children who are beaten will in turn give beatings, those who are intimidated will be intimidating, those who are humiliated will impose humiliation, and those whose souls are murdered will murder.

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It is very difficult for peopl...

It is very difficult for people to believe the simple fact that every persecutor was once a victim. Yet it should be very obvious that someone who was allowed to feel free and strong from childhood does not have the need to humiliate another person.

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We produce destructive people ...

We produce destructive people by the way we are treating them in childhood.

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The results of any traumatic e...

The results of any traumatic experience, such as abuse, can only be resolved by experiencing, articulating, and judging every facet of the original experience within a process of careful therapeutic disclosure.

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The reason why parents mistrea...

The reason why parents mistreat their children has less to do with character and temperament than with the fact that they were mistreated themselves and were not permitted to defend themselves.

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There are people who have bene...

There are people who have benefited from therapy without being confronted with the past at all.

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The commandment to refrain fro...

The commandment to refrain from placing blame on our parents, deeply imprinted in us by our upbringing, skillfully performs the function of hiding essential truths from us.

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We can never do the right thin...

We can never do the right thing as long as we are out to please someone else.

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Quite often I have been faced ...

Quite often I have been faced with people who were praised and admired for their talents and their achievements... According to prevailing attitudes, these people-the pride and joy of their parents-should have had a strong and stable sense of self-assurance. But the case is exactly the opposite... Whenever they suddenly get the feeling they have failed to live up to some ideal image or have not measured up to some standard, then they are plagued by anxiety or deep feelings of guilt and shame. What are the reasons for s

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Good manners are the technique...

Good manners are the techniques of expressing consideration for the feelings of others.

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When a woman like that whom I'...

When a woman like that whom I've seen so much, All of a sudden drops out of touch; Is always busy and never can, Spare you a moment, it means a man.

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Society chooses to disregard t...

Society chooses to disregard the mistreatment of children, judging it to be altogether normal because it is so commonplace.

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What is addiction, really? It ...

What is addiction, really? It is a sign, a signal, a symptom of distress. It is a language that tells us about a plight that must be understood.

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People love to talk but hate t...

People love to talk but hate to listen.

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It is possible to resolve chil...

It is possible to resolve childhood repression safely and without confusion - something that has always been disputed by the most respected schools of thought.

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Courage can be just as infecti...

Courage can be just as infectious as fear.

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People whose integrity has not...

People whose integrity has not been damaged in childhood, who were protected, respected, and treated with honesty by their parents, will be-both in their youth and in adulthood-intelligent, responsive, empathic, and highly sensitive. They will take pleasure in life and will not feel any need to kill or even hurt others or themselves. They will use their power to defend themselves, not to attack others. They will not be able to do otherwise than respect and protect those weaker than themselves, including their children,

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Empathy grows as we learn....

Empathy grows as we learn.

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the strongest will is the will...

the strongest will is the will that knows how to bend.

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