To worry about people... It's very bad for your health, and even more so as you get older, you keep it all inside you. Previously, you could scorch everything with one phrase and get rid of it, but now it is inconvenient — you can neither be rude nor even shout.
Patronage during the Renaissance was considered quite a responsible affair. Philanthropists supported artists, believed in them and never allowed themselves to interfere directly with the creative process of people of art. I myself profess similar principles in the field of cooperation with outstanding cultural figures.