They say that in the family there should be complete unity. In fact, I think it's the other way around. My wife is an architect, now retired, but she used to be quite famous in her field, she worked a lot, she has her own friends ... She doesn't really know what I do, and this is very important. Well, theater, premieres ... Wives who dissolve in their husbands - probably this is very good and a great help. But, I think, in the end, you can go crazy with it - when someone constantly dissolves in you. But parallel existence is air: she has her own creativity, I have mine. It turns out that not around the clock nose to nose. So it goes on for many years...